Insan ka asal chehra – Social Media aur humari Be-Ghertian

Insan ka asal chehra - Social Media aur humari Be-Ghertian

Chehra insani jism ka bohat ahem hissa hai, insan ka chehra hi is ki shakhsiyat ka aaina daar hota hai. Chehray se khoubsurti aur husn ka pata chalta hai. Chehray hi ke tasrat se insan ko dosray insan ke mizaaj ka andaza hota hai.

Chehray ke tasrat hamaray jazbaat ki tarjamani karte hain. Bdalty tevare se jazbaat ke utaar charhao ka bakhoobi andaza lagaya ja sakta hai. Lekin rawaiyon ke izhaar ke liye baaz auqaat chehray par chehra bhi sajaya jata hai japani kahawat hai ke har insan ke teen chehray hotay hain.

Pehla chehra : Wo chehra jo aap duniya ko dikhata hain. Is chehray ko aap khoob chamka kar rakhtay hain. Is chehray par aap khush gftari aur khush ikhlaqi sameit jis terhan ki khoobiyon ka mumkin ho sakay make up charha kar rakhtay hain.

Dosra chehra : Wo hota hai jo aap apne qareebi doston aur khandan ke samnay paish karte hain. Aur is chehray par kabhi kabhar thoray kam “make up” se bhi kaam chala letay hain.

Teesra chehra : Wo chehra hota hai jo aap kabhi kisi ko nahi dikhata. Ye chehra sirf aap hod apne zameer ke aaiine mein dekh satke hain. Yahi aap ka asal chehra hota hai.

Aur agar aap ka asal chehra ( taisar chehra ) badsoorat hai. To log be shak aap ko allama sahib, miyan sahib, haji sahib, hafiz sahib, shah sahib aur chohadry sahib keh kar pkarte rahen. Logon ki baton mein mat aayiyae ga.

Kyunkay agar aap badsoorat chehray par achha make up charha kar logon ko bewaqoof bananay mein kamyaab ho gaye hain, to aap achay adakar to ho satke hain magar achay insan nahi. Aur yeh make up miyan nawaz sharif ki terhan kisi bhi waqt utar sakta hai.

Aur agar aap ka teesra chehra yani ke asal chehra khobsorat hai. To aap tanhai mein bhi kisi ke mutaliq bura nahi sochen ge. Aap tanhai mein bhi achi aur misbet soch ke maalik hon ge. Yani aap ki tanhai bhi pak hai. Ye bhi parheen : misbet aur manfi soch ke insani zindagi par asrat

Ap ko logon ko safiyan  dainay ki bilkul zaroorat nahi hai. Logon ki raye apne mafadaat ke pishِ nazar aap se mutaliq badalti rahay gi. Logon ke mafadaat jab aap se wabsta hon to aap inhen farishta nazar ayen ge aur jab mafadaat nahi hon ge to shetan.

Agar aap hsnِ niyat ke haamil hain. Aap ka zameer aap ke asal chehray ko dekh kar sharminda nahi hota. To mere chaand fikar ki koi baat nahi hai. Log be shak aap ko” kala chor” kehte rahen logon ki parwa mat karen. Aap sirf apne teesray yani baatini chehray par tavajja markooz rakhen.

Agar aap ka batin shafaaf hai to aap bohat hi achay insan hain. Ab tanhai mein ankhen band kar ke apne tenu cheharon par ghhor farmaen. Nateeja koi bhi aeye pareshan bilkul nahi hona. Agar to  tenu chehray aik jaisay hain to bohat khoob aap test paas kar gaye hain.

Aur agar meri terhan apna asal chehra dekh kar aap ka “tarra” nikal gaya hai to bhi fikar ki koi baat nahi. Insan ke paas hamesha waqt hota hai hod ko sudharnay ka. Khud ko badalny ka. To agar aap ko mehsoos ho ke aap ki shhsit mein behtari ki gunjaish hai to usay behtar bananay ki koshish kijiyeje.

Aur agar ap ko lagey ke aap aik mukammal insan ho to apni zindagi mein mast rahiye. Kyunkay mein kon hota hon aap ko mashwaray dainay wala. Mein to khud intahi bُra insan hon. Haan! Magar ko shash zaroor kar raha hon achha insan ban’nay ki.

Social media aur hamari be ghertian

Social media par insaan ka asal chehra: social media hamari zindagi laazmi hissa ban chuka hai aur aap agar ghhor karen to yahan aksariyat mard o khawateen aap ko aisi nazar aeye gi jo bohat mohazab baaekhlaaq hogi, un ki profayl dekhen to bohat hi achi achi post share ki hoti hai un se guftagu ki jaye to zabaan mein bohat mithaas nazar aati hai.

Hamaray muashray mein be ravi bohat taizi se phelti jarahi hai aur logon ka jins mukhalif ko apni taraf raghib karne ke liye har terhan ke hthknde apna rahay hain un mein aik hthknda jo social media par sab se ziyada apnaya jata hai woh” meethi zabaan aur jins mukhalif se hamdardi zahir karna hai”

Bohat ziyada mard aur kuch khawateen bhi is harbe ko istemaal kar ke jins mukhalif ko apni taraf mutwajjah karte hain, aisay logon ka jhukao aap ko aik taraf nazar aeye matlab jis mukhalif ki hamdardi mein bolein ge baat kuch bhi ho rahi ho aisay log apne hi mission par hotay hain aisi battay ki jayen ke koi to hamaray jaal mein phas jaye koi to hum se mutasir ho jaye. Ye log sab se ziyada khatarnaak saabit hotay hain ye jins mukhalif ki har baat par haan mein haan mlayin ge. Jab ke hqit ye hai ke ikhtilaaf raye har kisi mein payi jati hai wo mard ho ya aurat.

Aur jab koi un ki baton se msasr ho kar un se talluq berhata hai to ye aahista aahista apni auqaat dikhnana shuru kar dete hain phir un ka wo chehra samnay aata hai jo wo kisi ko nahi dikhata aksar auqaat jab taq un ke bhayanak chehray ko insaan pehchanta hai un ke azaeem zahir hotay hain tab taq bohat der ho chuki hoti hai.

Phir bas pachtaawa hi bachta hai natijah ye nikalta hai ke hamara sab par se aetmaad uth jata hai. Islam nay hamaray liye hudood muqarrar kar di hain, kisi namhrm se sharee wajah ya majaboori ke baghair baat ki ijazat nahi hai aur ijazat bhi aisay hai ke jab kisi namhrm se baat karen to talkh ya sakht lehjey mein baat karen taakay kisi namhrm ke dil mein koi badgumaani peda na ho.

Lekin hamara haal ulta hai mardon ko dekhen jo apne ghar ki mehram aurton maa, biwi, behan se muskura kar baat karna pasand nahi karte wo facebook par gher mehram khawateen ke agay jee jee kar rahay hotay hain kisi ka naam bhi letay hain to sath jee laga kar bohat hi mohazab aur shaista banay ki koshish karti hain kyunkay un ko maloom hota hai agar wo namhrm se talkh lehjey mein baat karen ge to un ko koi ghaas bhi nahi daaley gi.

Phir khawateen ko dekhen to un ka bhi gher mehram mardon se baat karte waqt andaaz ziyada mukhtalif nahi hota, saari mithaas gher mehram se baat karte zabaan mein aa jati hai, aisi khawateen ki tadaad kam hai lekin hai zaroor. Baaz avchhi qisam ki khawateen khud apna tamasha banwati hain mardon se free ho kar, phir mard nazaiba zabaan ka istemaal karte hain to phir un ko bura lagta hai aur kuch khawateen roti dekhi hain jo kehti hain ke mein aisi nahi thi bas is ki baton mein aagai, is ki battay mujhe achi lagi, phir kya huwa is nay apne auqaat dikha di, baat comments se shuru hoti hai phir un box mein aur is ke baad bohat daur taq jati hai jis ka injaam sirf rona hi hota hai, is liye pehlay hi allah ki muqarrar kardah hudood se bahar na nikleen.

Mein yahan apni baat karta hon aap logon ko nahi maloom ke mein apni amli zindagi mein kaisa hon, ye mein hi jaanta hon, itni lambi baat karne ka maqsad sirf itna hai social media par mujh sameit koi bhi anjaan mard ya aurat qabil aitbaar nahi hai.

Kisi ki baton mein hargiz na ayen yahan log waisay nahi hotay jaisi battay karte hain kisi ki shakhsiyat ka pata is ki amli zindagi se hi chalta hai, baaz auqaat insaan ki aankhon ke samnay honay wala amal bhi dhoka hota hai lehaza mard hon ya khwatin khaas tor par khawateen ko bohat mohtaat rehne ki zaroorat hai.

Facebook ho, ghar ho ya bahar ki zindagi namhrm se doori bana kar rakhen. Kisi namhrm se hamdardi ki umeed rakhna hi bewakofi hai aur kisi namhrm ko bhai ya behan keh dainay se bhi wo namhrm hi rahay ga aisa kar ke aap khud ko hi dhoka den ge aur kuch nahi.